My name is Mel, and I want to live in a world where people can connect fearlessly.
I guide social misfits and cultural rebels to experiences of joyful, embodied, authentic, open relationships.
I specialise in working with queer and questioning humans — and the people who love them — who are curious about or already practicing consensual non-monogamy, with a focus on Self-Partnership, Solo Polyamory, Relationship Anarchy, and Trauma Informed practices.
My goal is to empower you to have relationships that are healthy, courageous, and fulfilling.
I compassionately challenge you to examine how old ideas might be holding you back, how fear might be running the show, and I guide you through new skills and perspectives for building radical relationships.
Want to work with me? Read on!
The Monogamy Detox
6-week online, life-time access workshop, runs every spring & fall.
Workshops
Online and In Person Workshops
For Helping Professionals
Resources for professionals working with clients practicing Consensual Non Monogamy
Radical Relating Community
Join the Community of Radical Relators!
Relationship Coaching
Start Your Radical Relationship Journey Today
Somatics
Art and inspiration
Radical Renew
21 day e-course for nourishing your Self Relationship
The Blog
Articles on Radical Relating
The MasculiniTea Podcast
Conversations about Men, Masculinity, and our relationships with them.
Make an Appointment Today!
Get started on your Radical Relationship Journey!

Listen to my interview on Modern Sex Talks, “Polyamory Done Right”
“What if it truly doesn't matter what you do, but how you do whatever you do?”
~ Oriah Mountain Dreamer