The Perfect Polyamorous Person

This article originally appeared on Polysingleish, Feb 9th, 2015. It has been edited and updated from it’s original version.   The Perfect Polyamorous Person— or PPP for short— develops in all of us who start exploring polyamory. It’s this future...

Pandemics, Paranoia, and New Paradigms

This article was written during the COVID-19 Lockdown. Before you read on, I need to offer acknowledgement that I write under unique circumstances during these lock-down times: I have the privilege to live in an area where there have been few cases, and transmission...

The Drama Vortex

The Drama Triangle: a model for understanding interpersonal conflict. Again and again I return to this model to understand my own accountability in contributing to conflict, and as a tool for supporting others in navigating conflict. The Drama Triangle is a relational...

The Healing of Intimacy

In a world where we lose ourselves to the transient, illusionary constructs of connection, where social media and now, virtual reality, offer us manufactures forms of connection, taking the place of in-person real, nourishing presence, there is such a need for the...